Sunday, April 23, 2017

April 2017

April 23, 2017

I usually feel more "inspired" when I sit down to compose an Update, but at the moment it feels as though if we wait for an inspiration, you may not hear from me before Christmas.

Our weather has zipped from "rainy season" into full-blown SUMMER with very little warning.  One day there were moisture drops on the awnings and the next day the plants need to be watered with a hose!  I don't have many that have to be watered by a hose.. but I celebrated the Easter season with a few annuals tucked in here and there--crystal blue Lobelias, lavender Violas, purple Pansies--and I'm enjoying their little faces.

My rose garden just exploded into bloom! But it's moisture supplied by an automated watering system which Alberto regulates for me when we aren't having enough rainy days.























I don't know HOW warm it's been. Brenda sent a photo yesterday of the dash thermometer in her car showing 107 degrees. I honestly don't think it's been THAT warm here but it was 80 degrees in my family room with the windows open and a pleasant breeze. 

The downside of that is that many days I'm not here until late-dusk so the house is closed. Once I get the windows opened, it does cool down but it takes awhile. Last night it cooled 10 degrees and is a pleasant 72 at the moment.

I don't think I mentioned in my last Update that when Mary Lou took "Lil Truck" for service the last time, the mechanic told her the compression is dropping and ...don't pull the trailer with a load again. I honestly don't know what that means but I think it's mechanics language for "terminal". We had a couple of interesting weeks finishing up the pending projects without being able to pull the trailer... but God provided substitutes to pull the load.  That's a story of its own.


On Thursday of Easter week we went to a lot in Fallbrook where Mary Lou had located some Toyota trucks...and, oh shucks! ...one followed her home! Our new "Lil Truck" isn't quite so "little". It's a 2005 Tacoma with 59,000 original miles; one owner. It has a sport package which includes upgraded shocks for an almost car-like ride. The extend-cab means I can put my seat back far enough that my knees don't touch the dash :) and Midget has a space of her own. The color is called "Sand" but we think it looks gold. 


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Yes, it does have a tonneau cover. No, we can't move furniture very well with the cover on. We are tentatively planning a roadtrip beginning in late May during which we intend to deliver items to various destinations as we go so we decided to leave the cover on until our return. 

The trip:  If you live along a path that is roughly between San Diego and Indianapolis and would like to see us, we are beginning to plan the itinerary.  We know the first stop is Mesa, AZ for birthday celebrations over Memorial Day weekend. Our farthest point (as of this moment) is Indianapolis, IN with visits in Bartlesville and Claremore, OK and Carthage, MO. 

Beyond that, I anticipate spending much of August in Fayetteville NC helping my grand-daughter after the arrival of her daughter (Brantley's sister) as Matt is deploying.  

Meanwhile we have been keeping VERY busy. Those who follow us on FaceBook know that we have been at the Warrior Warehouse at Camp Horno almost every Friday for close to 3 months. This is a Rotary Club sponsored distribution center located in the heart of Camp Pendleton. Like Helpful L.O.U. they "channel" furniture and household items from civilian donors to military families. They are open for distribution from 9-12 on "Friday only" so the hours between 7-9 are busy with stocking whatever has been picked up by their big box truck during the week. 

Mary Lou still has her own ministry and we are able to make contacts through the folks who come to the Warrior Warehouse. We are also still doing a lot of pickups.  Last month we did a clean out on a 3 bedroom 2 bath house in Ocean Hills; and are about to wrap up a clean out in Solana Beach. They were approximately 4 truck/trailer loads each.  Those projects represent a lot of work...and we are grateful for the volunteers who help.  




Whatever did we do before we had the use of the trailer??


We are grateful for those who "hands on" help and also for those who help in other ways.. especially for those to pray for our safety as we spend hours on the highway.





Wednesday, December 10, 2014

2014 December


                                   


ABBOTT AMAZEMENT JOURNAL

December 10, 2014   6:15 a.m.

The passing train had everyone awake at 3:30 this morning.  One of the perks of staying at Oceanside Harbor is a front-row seat of the train tracks, which are well-used. The plus side is that during the day the passing trains gives Mom something to watch; along with the seagulls. Definitely a change of pace from home.

We had the opportunity to spend 5 nights at the coast and, although this is a busy season, we opted to cocoon in our 3 bedroom suite to do some Christmas baking and writing of Christmas cards. Mary Lou is delighting our palates with her Pinterest recipes.



Monday afternoon we took Mom to O’side Harbor to feed the seagulls—one of her favorite things to do. We had a partial bag of sale corn chips which made her a very popular person to about 40 gulls…to her great delight.

                          


Meanwhile Mary Lou and I took a walk on the beach. The tide was SO far out that we could walk almost to the end of the breakwater!! But that’s where we found the sand dollars. Some of them were shades of purple (still living) but we collected several of the white (deceased) ones.  This reminded us of when we were at this resort in 2009 for Mom’s 89th b-day celebration and found sand dollars on the beach.  

 
The sun is glinting on the crashing waves and we can see surfers (like tiny ants) out there enjoying the morning.  Coffee is hot and Mary Lou is producing enticing scents in the kitchen.  "Wish you were here" 


 

 I compared a photo from Monday with this similar shot from this morning (Thursday) and while the pix don't look so very different...the incoming storm front has changed our season from Indian Summer to Christmas! We are endlessly enjoying the gas fireplace and nesting in our condo. Our thinking now is that we will pack up and head inland this afternoon so that (hopefully) we can get unloaded before things get wet there.  Here we have an underground parking garage.


Friday, June 20, 2014

2014 May 26 GRATITUDE from Grandma's heart

Abbott Amazement Journal   Mesa, AZ
May 26, 2014
Not only is this an ABBOTT AMAZEMENT Journal, but an expression of the overflow of GRATITUDE from this Grandma’s heart.  I am SO blessed!  I appreciate the opportunity to spend my birthday week with friends and family in Mesa.
I don’t yet have the photos downloaded, but do expect to include a group shot from Thursday evening; taken when my local grands & greats were gathered here.  I KNOW that “Papa Tom” was smiling to see the 6 of them swimming, jumping on the trampoline, and cooperatively producing a fashion show while adults chatted. Our family is such a patch-work quilt of varied cultures and ages, stitched together with love. It’s beautiful…and so cozy to snuggle into its warmth.

Tom and I enjoyed the almost kaleidoscope variations. Now it appears quite probable that my American granddaughter will be vacationing with her husband in Sevilla on a visit with my Spanish daughter in early July. (Austin & Nichole are hoping to spend a week with Tamara & her girls).  There is much to commend “bucket lists” and the spontaneity to take advantage of opportunities.
Nichole is determinedly working her way through MY bucket list too. On this visit we took the girls to the Botanical Gardens…TWICE!  Tom and I were in Phoenix/Mesa for 30 years…but I’d never made the time.  In fact I had intended to take Nina to see the butterfly garden in more than one season…that passed by before we took advantage of the opportunity. Now we have a season pass…and a date for the Butterfly Breakfast in Sept.
  


We really did visit the garden twice in the same day. During the morning hours we walked the paths admiring spears & succulents as well as the small rodents, frogs, birds & butterflies who make it their home. When we learned that was the date for one of their occasional flashlight tours, we made plans to buy batteries and come back for "an hour” at sunset.  That deadline slipped right past as we enjoyed the 12 “discovery stations”…saw a great horned owl at very close range, pounded mesquite beans into flour with a rock.

  



Grandma & Lexxie don't SHARE a birthday but the dates are close so we had one big family celebration on the 25th. Fortunately Nichole didn't put 69 candles on my cheese "cake" because even the few looks like quite a conflagration!
And on Monday, which was my actual birthday, Nichole and Tamara brought in dinner from Chili's, complete with a "molten" (warm chocolate cake with syrup in the center & vanilla ice cream on the top).  Yummm!




Sunday, April 27, 2014

2014 Hawaii Trip

Morning Tryst
This past week has been so full...and so AMAZING...that I'm not sure where to start.  It is now 7 a.m. on Saturday, April 26 and I am sitting on the balcony of a condo in Waikaloa, Hawaii (about 20 miles north of the Kailua-Kona airport on Big Island).  The trade winds are providing soothing circulation and creating the sounds of surf in the fronds of the numerous palms.  A variety of birds are supplying a background symphony.  I'm enjoying all the sensations as I sip a cup of Tazo.

I am traveling with my sister Judy, who was "tapped" by the Gideon Int'l Auxiliary to coordinate a scripture distribution at a pre-natal nursing convention on Oahu this past week. Share a room, share a car...and purchase the ticket with accumulated points on my credit card made it pretty much of a "no brainer". 

You gotta eat no matter where you are...though I must admit we wouldn't have eaten like this at home!  At least once a day we've had some exotic repast...coconut crusted shrimp, fresh mahi, macadamia nut ice cream at the HaleKoa; we tried a ramen burger at Tanaka's Saimen and Italian pasta at Baca de Bepo.

In the afternoon following the first day of the convention, we met up with Zachalyn and her fiancé Keone.  Zachalyn and her brother Jacob (at ages 3 & 4) were a foster placement with Randy and Judy during the time they were stationed at Kaneohe 30 years ago, so they share a lot of history.  This was my first time to meet her; though Mom & Daddy and Mary Lou had all gotten acquainted with the children during Randy's military tour.

The second afternoon we drove out to Waianai and enjoyed a family evening with her family, including Zackalyn's father and her older brother, his wife and children.  Zachalyn has two children at home;  a daughter finishing her junior year of high school and a son who is a freshman basketball player.

Friday afternoon (yesterday) we flew inter-island to Kailua-Kona. We picked up a rental car and arrived at The Bay Club at Waikaloa near sunset.  Our accommodations here are "huge" --dual master bedrooms connected by a great room furnished as both dining & living rooms and a galley kitchen (with full-sized appliances). My "suite" has a king bed and a bath with a garden tub (no Jacuzzi jets).  Judy chose the one with dual queen beds. Surrounding most of the exterior is a wide, covered porch/ balcony furnished for alfresco dining and lounging.

Our time-share in Honolulu (downtown Waikiki) just opened in January (read, very modern) and is quite Asian in design.  I loved that most openings between rooms had wide pocket doors so the spaces could be rearranged to accommodate current use. Judy photographed the plumbing as soon as we got in...fascinated with water for the tub and shower that dispensed from the ceiling. The shower also had a wand if you preferred not to be "rained on".  And the tub--reminiscent of an antique claw-footed one--was a free-standing bowl (from which water easily splashed).

 Of the whole trip, the landing on Kona was the most emotional part for me.  Remembering the arrival and lei greeting on our family visit.  I find it difficult to believe that it will be NINE years come June since my last visit to "Big Island".  Our family (Mom, Mary Lou, Judy & Randy, Tom and I) spent a week in a condo at Puako (about 15 minutes north of where Judy and I are this week).  Some of the scenery is familiar and some has changed. There are new houses. It's amazing to see how they have been able to landscape the yards over the lava beds which is the primary "top soil" in Kona. I've learned that there is dark lava (from more recent flows) and lighter lava (older flows). At one location we read about the kinds of plants that begin to grow through the lava as it ages.  Another interesting study! And today we saw a house that was destroyed by a lava flow.  I've read that in total some 200+ houses have been lost to volcanic eruptions on Hawaii.  As we're driving along there will be an abrupt foliage change where a lava flow has come through; and in a few miles, we're back to the vegetation.

SUNDAY morning:  Another sunny day in paradise!  Back on the balcony listening to the birds and watching the feral cats from down in the lava canyon. (There are a number of them).  Earlier I saw a mongoose run across the lawn. Judy saw one yesterday. On our excursion yesterday we saw several Nene (state bird of Hawaii) as well as a wild pheasant and several wild turkeys. (Lots of photo ops!)  We also saw a large herd of sheep including a ram with curling horns.

Our destination yesterday was the Merrie Monarchs festival in Hilo. Learned this was the 50th anniversary of Merrie Monarchs; primarily a hula-dancing competition but with many local crafters displaying their wares.  A tour of the Hilo harbor, "Loco Moco" for lunch at L&L, a little shopping at Hilo Hatties, a quick visit to one of Judy's Gideon friends, a hike up to see Rainbow Falls (didn't go all the way in because it was muddy & slippery).  On the way back we took a 4-mile detour; the scenic route. It was gorgeous! Very many reminders of our trip on the road to Hana (Maui) as in narrow roads and even narrower bridges, tall trees growing up from the canyon floor and water falls rushing down the hill. There's actually a Botanical Garden there but we opted not to pay $15 each to tour it in the rain that suddenly began pouring down.  A few curves further along we found a vendor from whom we purchased a container of chocolate macadamia nut ice cream (which we ate immediately, as soon as it thawed enough to use the plastic spoons) And a small loaf of  banana bread, which was our breakfast this morning, along with a fresh Papaya.  :)


I've been trying to catalog the beautiful flowers we see...almost like a kaleidoscope changing as we drive along.  There are red, pink, salmon and white Bouganvilla, white, pink and red Plumeria, pink, red, yellow, and orange Hibiscus, gorgeous deep blue Plumbago, orchids in a variety of sizes and colors.  We've seen several fish ponds with wild water lettuce and lily pads (pink on Oahu; blue on Hawaii).  Of course there are several varieties of Palms and other green plants. I'm particularly taken with something similar to a peace plant that is burgundy red on the underside and dark green on the top of the leaves. In front of our unit is a plant that resembles a gardenia but the flower looks more like the white star of Boxwood. Over toward Hilo we saw something raspberry red growing on the volcanic rock... resembling Sedum; fields of yellow daisies, delicate white orchids poking through other roadside shrubbery.

We've seen 2 Geckos (bright green), a good-sized cameleon (also bright green), 2 long-horn steers, 3 buffalos, a donkey and a zebra!  Tonight I found a small critter in my bathroom. At first I thought it was a spider, but upon observation found it's a tiny gecko about 2" long. Very cute!

Monday morning
When Judy and I made our first trip to Hawaii about 10 years ago, I spent a good deal of time on my bed, propped up with pillows, with her computer on my knees, trying to document our experiences and my impressions of Hawaii.  I was thinking last night that some things haven't changed a great deal. Propped up with pillows on my king-sized bed with my laptop across my knees... 

One significant difference between then and now... each morning we got up and took a walk on the beach (which was just outside the back door of our hotel on Waikiki).  This year we walked on the beach in Waikiki only once. :(  Yesterday we took a short trek on the shore at Black Sand beach. It truly is BLACK sand. Very coarse. I'm sure it's origin is volcanic rock.

Tuesday morning
A "down day"...  slow rolling start, a load of laundry, a bit of local shopping, lunch at the Food Court, nap time, a soak in the community pool after their social hour with free ice cream cones (!)  Our lunch portions were so large that we had the left-overs for dinner (which was plenty after double scoops of mac nut and Kona coffee ice cream), and then went for a walk on the shore. Actually it IS the ocean, but where we have beach access is within a quiet cove. Very pleasant. 

I did manage to download 150+ photos from my camera onto the computer last night. Next learning curve is to import photos into my blog. One challenge per day...  I'm liking the camera, which is water-resistant (to 33' but I'm not planning an underwater excursion with it).  It IS a point-and-click camera (perfect for me!) so the lens doesn't allow focus on the orange, yellow and white butterflies which flutter near the blossoms or the dragonflies that hover over the lily pads in the koi ponds.

Today's itinerary proposes a return trip to Hilo via the Saddle Road (between the 2 volcano mountains: Mauna Kea and Mauna Loa) and from there, south along the east shore of the Island to the active volcano area.

Of course we had to tour Kileawa, the only active volcano (at present). Some roads were closed due
to “bad air” which prevented a drive all the way around the caldera but we were told even if we could
drive there, we wouldn’t see molten lava. We did see a number of steam vents.

I would suppose a person could spend an entire vacation in that immediate area just learning about the
several kinds of lava; the age of the various runs, and the progression of plants that take root in volcanic
rock. I thought it was interesting to read that it would be possible to grow sweet potatoes under a pile
of volcano rock (as in moisture & temperature). There is also a lava tube through which tourists may
walk but we opted out.

Here are pics of our dinner at L&L. The "sides" are always 2 scoops of sticky rice and mac salad. The mac salad is always delicious but we discovered the recipe differs some from one location to another. We also discovered that one portion was sufficient for two meals.
                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                           
Garlic crusted Ahi

Garlic shrimp & steak at L&L 

                                                                             









We discussed a tour of an orchid farm on the return trip, but ultimately opted to continue on around
the island to Kailua-Kona rather than back-tracking to Hilo. This allowed us to enjoy a pleasant visit with
Judy’s friends Lanny & Tatiana Green at Ocean View. For the next bunch of miles we watched the sun
set. For some reason the camera wouldn’t capture the radiance, but it was glorious…and lasted quite
a long time. It was full-on dark when we got back to Waikaloa and without street lights, it’s DARK out
there, but we could still differentiate the sea from the sky; it was just picking out the roadway though
the approaching headlights that was challenging.

After Glow
Yesterday we planned a short excursion to the Vanilla farm…and THAT part was reasonably short but on the way back to Waikaloa we “detoured” up the side of Mauna Kea all the way to Hawi (which I think is the northern most town) and back up to an elevation of 3500+ feet (and down again!). Lots of cattle up that way and riding stables. From the scenic overlook we could see “South Point” which is literally that.. the southern end of Hawaii. There are wind chargers farmed out there as it is a very windy area. Also saw the big propellers near Hawi.

Eventually we came out to an area I recognized from our trip 9 years ago. We took the turn off into
Puako and saw the condo where we stayed. The little Church where we worshipped is still there and
well upkept. Lots more houses added to the community. We found a “beach access” sign and waded
in the surf. Seems the shoreline has changed some; gets deep very quickly now. I remember using the
lava rocks as stepping stones; they are now submerged. The deep chocolate color of the lava makes the water along the coastline beautiful shades of aqua and teal…in contrast to the deep blue of the ocean.

While walking barefoot in the sand (from the shoreline to the car) I found a small piece of coral partially buried in the sand. It is water-worn into the shape of a heart. An emotional responses, I'm sure ...but I felt like it was a message from Tom.              

Wednesday morning
Last luxurious morning to blog on the balcony, gazing across the green golf course and through a screen of palms at the blue water of the Pacific while listening to several different bird calls. By this time tomorrow we'll be back in Kailua-Kona waiting for our inter-island flight to Oahu. From there it's a 6-hour flight to San Diego plus a 3-hour time change so it'll be a long day before we get home.

I think the agenda for today is trying to make room in the suitcases for everything we brought along as well as what's been acquired since we got here. We've tried to be good...and collect only small items, but even those will take up suitcase space! This is probably my least favorite part of the trip...

Well, maybe second to the lengthy delay in picking up our rental car in Oahu. We've decided to change the spelling of that company to "Hurts".  Even with a gold-card reservation it took us 1-1/2 hours to process...and resulted in getting caught in end-of-work-day traffic. Ugh!

Then we're going to go "up island" for a tour of the Vanilla farm (and maybe lunch). Would be interesting to see that process.  Yesterday we toured the Mauna Loa facility... watched nuts being dipped in chocolate or Kona coffee syrup, tossed with sea salt or garlic (or spam flavor!)  Of course the samples were the best part!!

evening
It's been another interesting day. We did make it up to the Vanilla farm...in the rain. We started in sunshine (and ended in sunshine) but in between was a trip through the rain forest!  The farm is 3 miles up the side of Mauna Kea volcano on roads that twist & bend & dip, with foliage nearly meeting in an overhead arch.  Although their brochure says they serve lunch Monday through Friday, today they were closed for inventory. We were still able to have vanilla-flavored coffee with vanilla sugar; and a Arnold Palmer flavored with vanilla bean.

Coming back from the Vanilla farm, we stopped off in Homoko at a place called Tex’s Drive Inn (NOT drive through) to experience Maladaves…a version of filled sugar donut (with no hole). We prefaced that with a Hawaiian hamburger which has pineapple chunks and Thousand Island dressing in addition to the meat patty, lettuce & tomato on a bun of “sweet bread:.

Thursday afternoon

Some 30,000 above the ocean…and above a layer of clouds that look like cotton balls below us…we are headed back to the mainland. We left Kona for Honolulu about 9:30 this morning. I think we completed an entire circuit of Big Island and crossed via the Saddle Road (mid island) twice. Judy found several “scenic detours”. The one called Manua Kea loop was especially fun. The two-lane road is unimproved so in addition to being somewhat narrow, it climbs and dips. As the car approaches the crest of a rise, the driver can’t be certain where the lane will continue on the other side. Along the way we saw a wild pheasant (on both trips) as well as a number of good-sized turkeys…and, common to Hawaii, bantam roosters with their flocks,Then just before the loop rejoins Saddle Road, the road steeply loses elevation…with a view like a roller coaster. Whee! So much fun the first time, we did it again the next day.

We just had sweet bread again for our in-flight dinner. A small loaf filled with chicken and sweet ginger peas. Different.

Because we needed to fuel and return the rental car before our flight this morning, we set our alarms
for 5:30, with a target departure time of 6:30. Consequently I slept with the phone next to my bed so I’d be sure to hear it. No worries! At 7 a.m. mainland time, my sister started texting me! Then again I guess it was a good thing I was up as Judy slept through her alarm.

We are blessed to have gotten TSA Pre-(check) on our boarding passes. It’s a nice perk not to be
required to take the lap top and cell phones & baggie of liquids out of carry-on luggage, and remove
shoes & jacket. In Kona, even with the Pre-Check designation we had to take out liquids. In Honolulu, they were sending everyone through the Pre-check line.


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Sounds like you had a fun and relaxing time in Hawaii!

Keep writing----love it ! 

Sounds llike a wonderful refreshing time! So glad you and Judy were able to go.

Sunday, December 29, 2013

O Be Careful, Little Mouth


I've had a "blog" percolating inside my head for a couple of weeks. When I saw a post on FaceBook this morning, it just poured out.
YOUR LIFE IS A MINISTRY.
PEOPLE ARE WATCHING YOU
WHETHER YOU KNOW IT OR NOT.
Once upon a time, long long ago, Tom and I spent every Wednesday night with our little granddaughter (now turning 21). As months went by, she began to talk. Growing up in a largely adult environment, she had quite a vocabulary. And in addition, with a Hispanic Dad and an Anglo Mom, she was bi-lingual, responding in the language used to address her.  I remember saying "thank you" to her when handing her a cookie; trying to get her to repeat it back to me.  After a few weeks I commented to Tom that while she wasn't saying "thank you", she WAS saying the same word each time, apparently her own version of thank you.  Then our exchange student from Ecuador arrived and explained to us...she's saying "gracias".  Our ears just weren't attuned to catch that.

Time passed and one day I heard her say, "well actually....."  Something in the cadence of her delivery caught my attention. I didn't realize how frequently I prefaced my comments that way. Seeing, observing, imitating...(scary!)

As children, my sister Kathy and I had a blue record player with a manual arm and a selection of discs. My recollection is that the "artist" was known as Susie Sunshine but I was unable to locate that on Google. I did, however, find the words to one of the songs we listened to over and over again.
O Be Careful, Little Eyes 
O be careful little eyes what you see
O be careful little eyes what you see
There's a Father up above
And He's looking down in love
So, be careful little eyes what you see

O be careful little ears what you hear
O be careful little ears what you hear
There's a Father up above
And He's looking down in love
So, be careful little ears what you hear

O be careful little hands what you do
O be careful little hands what you do
There's a Father up above
And He's looking down in love
So, be careful little hands what you do

O be careful little feet where you go
O be careful little feet where you go
There's a Father up above
And He's looking down in love
So, be careful little feet where you go

O be careful little mouth what you say
O be careful little mouth what you say
There's a Father up above
And He's looking down in love
So, be careful little mouth what you say.
It's the "little mouth" that has been in my thoughts a great deal.  Whether the words are actually spoken, or are communicated by fingertips on a keyboard, they have such power to impact others. The result may be positive and uplifting or may be depressing or hurtful.  I know I've observed this in posts to my FaceBook account. There are some folks whose messages are so frequently negative that my inclination is to delete them. For me, that is counter-balanced by posts from others who post about the blessings in their lives...their children, their answered prayers, the unexpected blessings. I count on those positive infusions.

Among the collection of Christmas cards I received this year, I noted one recurring comment: I enjoy your Updates and Blogs. I think I'm being "cyber stalked" by people who "follow" me but don't post a response. It goes without saying that when we post something online, there is no way to control who may eventually read it. Hence, "be careful little mouth what you say."  
Let the words of my mouth be for your pleasure, and the meditation of my heart before you, Lord Jehovah, my helper and my Savior.                                                     Psalm 19:14 Aramaic Bible in Plain English        

                                                                                                       



Thursday, October 31, 2013

Living my DREAM

October 31, 2013
Mesa, AZ

So blessed to be spending a few days with my Arizona family.  I was able to fly over in time to attend the annual Jasmine Circle block party/potluck on Monday night; to renew friendships with folks who have been neighbors here for...well, let's just say "for a long time."  Of the 21 houses in this cul de sac, I think THREE of the families attending were here when Tom and I came in the spring of '89...so I'm "an old timer". Nevertheless, this is a very stable community with many families having been here for 15 - 20 years. We've watched one generation grow up, graduate, marry and they are now back with their children.

I suppose that's also true at my house.  Lexxie is 9 and Leila will be 6 next week--my great grands! It's so astounding! The kids keep growing but the parents/grandparents still look the same.  Good genes and clean living...with a little assistance from a hairdresser. LOL

What I wanted to write about is an incident that occurred on my flight over.  In introductions with my seat companion, the customary question was asked..."Are you coming or going?
 Hmmm..."Both"  Which begs the explanation that I have a place in California and another in Arizona. The young, professional man instantly exclaimed: "You are living my DREAM life. May through October in California and the rest of the year in Arizona."

"Dream" is a prominent theme for me.  I have mottos and stencils decorating my house along with Native American dream catchers. Surely some of this emphasis dates back to our Amway days and listening to the motivational messages of Zig Ziegler; to which is added Mary Kay encouragements such as "if you can dream it, you can do it."

I have a bucket list of what I consider to be fantasies, hopes, wishes~~dreams.  The conversation brought home to me that what I consider to be ordinary, normal and common-place truly is magical.  To be retired, with freedom to spend my days helping others, is dream-worthy. To enjoy good health and reasonable physical stamina is already a fantasy for some of my friends.  

My "Ah ha" moment has triggered reflection on the many blessings in my life; the reality of "dreams" that I haven't even dreamed.



Friday, October 11, 2013

Scarecrows, sweatshirts and baked apples...

Friday, October 11, 2013

It's officially FALL...and I'm hearing HAPPY reports to that effect from various sources. We've had some rain here on the coast with a dusting of snow in the higher elevations. I always enjoy getting back to the jeans and sweatshirt temps.  While my girlies were here from AZ over the weekend we hung "black" lights along the edge of my lanai (look kinda pinkish to me) and put the scarecrow decorations in the front yard so I'm progressing into the season.

Difficult to believe it's already almost the middle of October! Very much looking forward to a visit from Maria and a friend, also named Maria, from Ecuador in just about a month. I love it that she has business that brings her north at least once a year.

Nichole, Nina, Lexxie and Leila were here for a last of the season beach visit on the 5th & 6th. Tamara took her girls to Disneyland the last weekend in September and I met up with them for lunch on that Sunday. The week before that my sister Virginia was visiting from CO, and the weekend before that Derek & Anna, Chris & Melissa were camping at the beach. 

Woven throughout the visiting time, Mary Lou has been occupied with pick-ups and deliveries. Some days she has Nancy with her; and some days she needs my help. Keeps us both busy.
We spent 3 days emptying an "empty" house; taking out 3 truck/trailer loads. Then we helped move one of her military families...5 "working" days that week!! When we are allowed to take 
only what is needed, that's "easy" but when we do "clean outs" we end up with all kinds of bits and pieces that have to be sorted through, sometimes more than once. There will be food items, recycle bags (cans and bottles), houseplants, clothing for AmVets, partial bottles of laundry soap, hand soap and shampoo...and the list goes on.

Like a bombshell, into this domestic chaos, came news that one of my Church friends has been diagnosed with Stage 4 breast cancer which has metastized into her spine and scalp. It is a very aggressive cancer and fast-moving. To  my praying friends, I request your prayers for this family as, without a miracle, their time together is short.

How appropriate, then was this devotional thought yesterday:  
  TRUST ME ENOUGH to let things happen without striving to predict or control them. Relax, and refresh yourself in the Light of My everlasting Love. My Love-Light never dims, yet you are often unaware of my radiant Presence.  When you project  yourself into the future, rehearsing what you will do or say, you are seeking to be self-sufficient: to be adequate without My help. This is a subtle sin--so common that it usually slips by unnoticed.
  The alternative is to live fully in the present, depending on Me each moment. Rather than fearing your inadequacy, rejoice in my abundant supply.  Train your mind to seek My help continually, even when you feel competent to handle something by yourself.  Don't divide your life into things you can do by yourself and things that require My help. Instead, learn to rely on Me in every situation.  This discipline will enable you to enjoy life more and to face each day confidently.