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2010 Hawaii Blog

2010 Hawaii Blog

November 23, 2010 at 6:27pm






Wednesday, November 10
4:30 a.m. Maui time / 6:30 am “body time”

I'm used to being up by now...texting with Mary Lou and checking my FaceBook...but I don't think the lobby is ready for me at this hour so will start a blog of our Hawaiian vacation.

After a 5+ hour flight from San Diego and enduring a “sleeper” documentary about 2 Girls in Hana, we landed to delightful temperature with only moderate humidity on Oahu. From there we caught an inter-island flight and arrived in Maui about 4:45 San Diego time...which, given the time difference, left us some “tourist time” before dinner.

The first order of business was to pick up our rental car...with a pre-paid reservation for a mid-size. They didn't have any mid-size when we arrived so they bumped us into a standard—a Ford Focus. After loading the luggage and doing the usual walk-around and check-out we headed for the highway only to hear what we think was a transmission “whine” so we turned right around and went back. This time there were no more standard cars but a full-size had just come in so we were “bumped” into a cherry red Chevy Impala. So far it's doing great...except when lowering the electric windows with a loud screech. The extra leg room is great...but Judy would have preferred a smaller car for traversing the switchback roads.

So cute! There was a mother hen and a flock of baby chicks patrolling the parking lot. Not fast enough grabbing for the camera. One of those snapshots recorded on a flash of memory.

OK...second try we were finally on our way to the Iao Valley with its green “needle”. For those on FaceBook, I was able to upload several snaps of the park...rushing streams, bright flowers and LOTS of green. I was really pleased to note how many of the plants are replicated in the pots on my California “lanai".

Wednesday – After I had quietly managed a warm bath and booted Judy's little computer I found out she was awake too. We decided to take up management's “aloha” gesture of early morning hot coffee in the lobby and use their WiFi to check our e-mail/FaceBook messages. The offer was welcome, but while it was HOT, the coffee was NOT Starbucks. We joked that perhaps they'd forgotten to put the beans into the pot.

We breakfasted on fresh Papaya on our lanai, loaded the car and headed across the Island toward Hana. I've heard SO much about “the Road to Hana” but nothing I've heard did it justice. I wanted to snap a photo at every corner...and those don't BEGIN to replicate the reality. I don't have the vocabulary to describe the many and varied shades of green in the canopy, with splashes of bright colors where flowering shrubs poked through. From the tree branches hung enormous Golden Pathos and other kinds of vines and the roadway was littered in several places by fallen wild mangos.

We started with the sun rising into a largely blue sky at a surfer beach just outside of Paia.

At the second stop we hiked about ½ mile from the highway to view a double waterfall. Not only did we walk in, but once there, we climbed a considerable distance down a wet, rocky face, clinging to tree branches. The falls were beautiful though...worth the effort. The early morning was redolent with the scent of damp earth, and echoed with the music of various song birds. Everywhere we looked there were more and different flowers.

Judy said the foliage enroute to Hana shows best when slightly damp and sure enough, we got to check out the windshield wipers before long. (She mis-spoke and called them “umbrellas” so we share an inside joke about our car's unique equipment!) The entire day was peek-a-boo but the only time we got caught in a downpour was just after pulling off the road to check on candied ginger. It wasn't sufficient to make the gullies run, but it did cause little water falls from between the rocks alongside the road.

Stories about the Road to Hana are not exaggerated! It is, indeed, very twisty and narrow with spots where one car must wait for another to cross a one-lane bridge...and sometimes the intake of breath is about all that separates the sheet metal when passing oncoming traffic. I now have a t-shirt proclaiming that “I Survived The Road to Hana” but, surprisingly, there is a thriving community … complete with airport and docks...whose residents drive big, mean-looking trucks and apparently don't worry about “wrinkles".

We continued beyond Hana about 9-1/2 miles to where the National Park of Haleakala comes down to the sea. For the same price as a vehicle admission I acquired my life-time pass to National Parks... interestingly the card depicts a cactus flower (Arizona?) ...definitely NOT a Hawaiian variety. From the park headquarters we walked a loop whose outer boundary was “the Seven Sacred Pools”---one of which is something like 40 feet deep, eroded into the lava rock by the force of rushing waters during rainy season. The return loop was uphill, quite steep in places...and then the rain started! Good news!..we didn't melt.

Before heading back I promised to treat Judy to a coffee and following directions from “a local” we found a shop called Sweet Licks which consisted of a tent and a garden building fitted with a freezer, a coffee pot & a cash register. We ordered ice-cream sandwiches of home-made chocolate chip cookies and Macadamia Nut ice cream. (which eliminated the need for dinner!)

With the time we saved, we went shopping at WalMart that evening for wardrobe supplements which we were advised would be needed the following morning on Haleakala. Good call! We each got fleece pants and coordinating long-sleeved “sweat” shirts.

Driving in the valley at night, the lights of the houses on the mountain slopes put me in mind of lava flows. It was really very pretty.

We got up at 4:30 a,m, and drove up a curvy mountain road; the higher we got, the tighter became the hairpin turns. About 7 miles into our adventure, we rounded a curve and found a large brown heifer in the middle of the road, She and her companion took their own sweet time in meandering to the side so we could pass....while Judy hyperventilated. Further up we started seeing blue flashing lights which we eventually discovered belonged to a police car investigating an accident. Never did learn any details. And after that, suddenly there was a siren and more blue lights behind us! Turned out that was a park ranger who was apparently late for work. At all the other times, it looked as though we had the entire mountain to ourselves. So we were VERY surprised when we arrived at the summit and found the parking lot totally packed with vehicles. Some were tour buses but a lot, like us, in private cars. And, oh my, the interesting assortment of clothing. Some had come prepared with parka-like jackets or rain-slickers, others had taken a blanket from their bed and wrapped themselves in it.

The posted elevation at the lookout was 9,740 feet and when the sun rose at 6:25 am, the temperature was 47 degrees which is “freezing” in the tropics! I've seen the sun come up many times, but this day and at this elevation, it was spectacular!! Judy commented, and I agree, that while we came to see the sunrise, what we enjoyed most was the colors in the clouds preceding actual sunrise while the sky was a most delicious shade of raspberry, which softened to pink tinged with gold. At the precise moment,, a native Hawaiian “sang” an authentic call to the sun. Very appropriate and hauntingly beautiful.

I'm not sure at what elevation planes fly, but Judy and I kept commenting that we were going “way up high, where the airplanes fly”...which is what Mom used to tell Sammers about where the moon could be found.

Once the gate opened, we drove the final mile or so to the observation area on the top of the mountain. The elevation of the parking lot is 10,000, with another 400 or so feet of hiking up to the glass-enclosed building. One interesting thing I learned from the signage—Haleakala is almost twice as large below sea level (19,000+ feet) as above.

After breakfast and a nap, we went shopping...both at the outdoor malls which my girls would call “a mercado” and at Hilo Hatties “tourist trap”. We HAD to use our coupons for a “free” coffee mug! The Maui mugs are pink...we subsequently also got the yellow mugs for Oahu and royal purple mug of Kauai. I indulged in selecting an oyster which yielded matching white pearls, which I had set into earrings. The design of the setting is called “Road to Hana” which seemed appropriate.


That evening we drove up to Lahina (the “dry side” of Maui...and where the big hotels are located). Sheraton-Maui was advertising a sunset cliff dive to be viewed from their poolside. The pagentry started by blowing on a conch while a costumed runner lighted the tiki torches around the pool and down the path toward the cliffs. Once at the appointed spot, he removed his lei, held it aloft, tossed it down to the water and then dove into that spot. I think they said the dive was 30 feet.

We thought we'd eat there, but once the performance ended, the observers left so we did too. Judy knew “a little hole in the wall place” called Aloha Plate where we sampled the local menu at an outdoor table. The underside of each table umbrella was outlined with with little white lights...and we could see the lights of boats in the harbor. At the table next to us the couple was apparently a local lad entertaining a “howlie”girl by telling her all manner of lore...some undoubtedly true but some quite imaginative. Good entertainment!

Next morning we returned our cherry red Impala and flew from Maui to Oahu. The reservation for a car Judy had booked for Oahu had gotten misplaced so Judy's friend Janice picked us up from the airport and relayed us to the home of Judy's friend Hiroko. Both ladies are in the Gideon Auxiliary. Almost right away Hiroko and Judy left for a meeting so I had time to enjoy Hiroko's beautiful condo and pocket garden (and I also took a nap). Meanwhile Judy enjoyed driving Hiroko's new sports car—a Volkswagen Psaat (sp?) We nicknamed Hiroko “hot rod Momma” though Judy did the driving.

That evening we met other Gideon Auxiliary friends from the mainland—Heather, Sheryl, & Janet—for dinner at the Hale Koa with Hiroko and Janice. It was the night of the Marine Corps Birthday Ball, also at the Hale Koa so there were lots of Uniforms and their ladies in gorgeous gowns. One gentleman we spoke with said it was his 62nd ball; he served 27 years. The most interesting part was how trim he still looked in his dress blues.

Hiroko was a most gracious hostess...pampering us with special treats. Saturday morning while we were enjoying our flavored coffee in her dining area, we heard an unusual sound. I thought there had been a car crash, and in a way that's what it was. A young man had crashed into the fire hydrant just down from Hiroko's condo and we had a geyser in the park for probably 40 minutes.

Next, a woman began hanging Christmas ornaments on a shrub just beyond the wall of Hiroko's garden (which seemed quite unusual). The explanation was clear when a professional photographer appeared to take family photos...after which all the ornaments were taken away again.

Saturday was the Gideon Auxiliary training meeting for which the ladies (including Judy) had traveled from the mainland. It was a fairly small group—about as many locals as visitors. After the meeting some of the ladies gathered at Hiroko's house to visit and later we all went out for “dinner” (at Taco Bell) before Heather took Emily to the airport for her return flight to Hilo, and the rest of us went to Hilo Hatties near Waikiki for yellow mugs!

Judy and I had an early flight on Sunday from Oahu to Kauai...and Saturday evening we started talking about the possibility of Hiroko coming with us. Her daughter Naomi thought it was a great idea and encouraged her to join us. They went online and were able to book another ticket for the same flight. That's when we found out why we had booked a 2-bedroom time share when Judy and I could easily have shared smaller quarters. (aside from the fact that the 2-bdrm suite was all that was available on Kauai when we booked!)

While Judy was picking up our Kauai Impala (white), I phoned to confirm our arrival at Wyndham Bali Hai. They assuured me that we were expected but cautioned that traffic would be exceedingly heavy as the locals were having a memorial for Andy Irons that afternoon. From what I read in Monday's paper, he was a local who made a name for himself in surfing competition. He died last week in Texas at age 32.

With that caution and a whole day ahead of us, we explored the opposite side of Kauai—the dry side—starting with “the Grand Canyon of Hawaii” in Waimia Canyon. The colors are gorgeous and a pretty contrast to the dark green conifers...with a blue ocean in the distance. We toured a coffee plantation and sampled their 22 varieties. We saw the original sugar refinery of Kauai down near the salt flats. On another former plantation, the sugar is processed into rum with equipment resembling a boot-leg whiskey still (for 1200 gallons)...sampling allowed! They offered a “to die for” macadamia nut cake “marinated” in rum.

Toward evening we found a pretty spot for dinner...a beautiful grassy court in the center of a resort with bright flowers...overlooking the ocean, with an attentive waiter who served us dinners with such lovely presentation that we took photos of the plates before eating! Happy memories of a delightful dinner!!!

By the time we continued on, it had grown dark. The traffic was minimal and the road well marked. We knew we had about 27 miles to Princeville (where the Wyndham resorts are located). After we had driven for what seemed a long time and we thought we should be close, Judy saw a sign that said Princeville was 21 miles. What!?! Then she re-read it—2.1 miles. Has anyone ever seen a mileage sign with 1/10ths of miles on it?? That is the only one I recall ever having seen.

Anyway, we overshot our turnoff and ended up most of the way to Hanalei (and across another of those single vehicle bridges) before we got turned around. It became a comedy—we would call and the resort would give us directions, but we seemed unable to identify the landmarks (in Hawaii, “dark” is a LOT darker). Then we would get to laughing at the situation which only made it worse. At last a security patrol came to our rescue and gave us a escort. If not for that, I'm thinking we might have wandered around all night. They told us to look for a fountain...but it wasn't lighted. They told us to count 4 speed bumps but we thought we'd surely missed the way before reaching the first of them.

Then after getting checked in, we spent another 10 minutes wandering around looking for our building. I have seriously never felt so frustrated or inept. The units are 4-plexes...2 up and 2 down. We had an “up” with a view of the tree tops. It was like living in a tree-house; a very beautiful tree house. The beds were wonderfully comfortable and by that time, all we wanted to do was climb into them.

Monday we took a driving trip to Hanalei, where the movie South Pacific was filmed. That will give you some sense of the beauty of the area. The water was a gorgeous teal/aqua; the sand was “white” and the road was edged with lush greenery. My favorite memory of that day was watching the little fish in the tide pools. It reminded me of our time in Brasil almost 20 years ago...tropically warm water and salt-water fish.

Tuesday we went to the Fern Grotto on a flat-bottomed passenger ferry that held about 70 people. More photos of more kinds of foliage...it was so beautiful. On the way back down river, we were entertained with local music and a hula dancer. It was in the gift shop at the landing that I found my favorite souvenir—a photo of a Bird of Paradise blossom with a green gecko on its tip. So, on my 3rd trip to Hawaii, I finally brought home my gecko. (Third time's a charm..??)

Wednesday morning we got a very early start back to Lihue to turn in the rental car (9 am) and catch our flight to the mainland (11 am). We bid adieu to Hiroko at the airport in Oahu. And about 5 hours after that, we were back in San Diego where Mom and Randy met us.

Back to reality. Back to much cooler than usual San Diego temperatures. Back to switch gears and be ready for Mary Lou's Christmas warehouse distribution which started on Friday morning. Whew!! I still have suitcases in my living room.



toward Iao valley
toward Iao valley

toward Iao valley
toward Iao valley



Iao Nature Center
Iao Nature Center






"the Needle" in Iao Valley (Maui)
"the Needle" in Iao Valley (Maui)

"the Needle" in Iao Valley (Maui)
"the Needle" in Iao Valley (Maui)

"the Needle" in Iao Valley (Maui)
"the Needle" in Iao Valley (Maui)

"the Needle" in Iao Valley (Maui)
"the Needle" in Iao Valley (Maui)

Fresh papaya & homemade banana bread for our breakfast.
Fresh papaya & homemade banana bread for our breakfast.

Dinner at Asian restaurant-- delicious
Dinner at Asian restaurant-- delicious

Iao Nature Center
Iao Nature Center

Judy's Hawaiian putt-putt
Judy's Hawaiian putt-putt



Coffee Plantation
Coffee Plantation

Beautiful Bouganvilla
Beautiful Bouganvilla

Judy & Hiroko taking a picture of the ocean (one of many)
Judy & Hiroko taking a picture of the ocean (one of many)

At the Fern Grotto landing.
At the Fern Grotto landing.


Hiroko & Vickie
Hiroko & Vickie

Judy at Waimea Canyon
Judy at Waimea Canyon



The run refinery
The run refinery





Our tree house!
Our tree house!

Balcony of the tree house
Balcony of the tree house

reflection in large mirror--living room
reflection in large mirror--living room

Wildlife preserve..
and Taro farm
Wildlife preserve.. and Taro farm

2010 March 28

because some of you aren’t on facebook and don’t otherwise hear from me. For the others, please ‘scuse any repetition.

There’s no way I can go back and reconstruct the past couple of months…and don’t think I’d want to “relive” them anyway. Just say that Midget and I are adjusting to being on our own. We’ve had LOTS of support from family and friends. Mary Lou has been excellent in assuring that Midget isn’t left alone which translates to spending more time at Grandma’s house and getting to go for rides in the car.

With warmer weather coming on that will probably need to change again but Midget seems to be grieving less. The first couple of weeks she slept a lot, and always on Tom’s pillow. Yesterday my friend Rick came and put some chicken wire fencing in the front yard so Midget can’t escape up the street while we’re sitting on the Lanai. I have a sheet of lattice that I put across the walkway which keeps Midget & Sammy confined. Both seem to enjoy the freedom of being outdoors…and do I.

Adding a “roof” over the Lanai has proved to be a good decision. It changed the look of the entrance again but has made the porch more friendly…a place to savor morning coffee or linger in the late afternoon. Then a week ago Mary Lou and I added a small, pre-formed waterfall. It’s molded to look like rocks and is a perfect scale for the Lanai. By transferring Judy’s fish into that and consolidating our plants, I was able to get rid of the big black buckets…which was a visual expansion. It does have “tropical” ambience with many pots of plants.

Have been wanting to get out and “dig in the dirt” but restricted myself from planting anything new for the time being and confined my energies to pulling weeds of which there are an abundance! The rose garden is starting to bloom again—yellow at the moment—accented by the recent addition of pots of pink geraniums from Evie. Jan, the “lavender gardenia” (a lemon geranium) is trellising up the front corner support for the porch roof. So far it’s doing well but hasn’t bloomed.

My current focus is on completing the myriad tasks necessary before leaving for a trip. I’m planning to drive with my friend Brenda to Arizona this coming Tuesday (30th) when she goes to visit her sister. I’ll spend a few days with friends in Apache Junction and Mesa; see all the grand kids for Easter and celebrate a belated birthday with Valerie. My friends Gil and Sue are celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary on April 3rd with a big party. Sylvia, Rececca, Theryn and Susie have planned a lunch at the local tea house. Anna is looking forward to sharing coffee at Starbucks.

On Monday (4/5) the itinerary shows me flying from PHX at 7:45 am for Springfield, MO. Then I’ll drive a rental car down to Mountain Home (AR) to spend a few days with my Auntie Helene. She has arranged for us to take a tour which will include the arches in St. Louis—which I’ve never seen. The following Monday I’ll fly from Springfield to Monroe, LA (just over the AR line) where I’ll get to spend some time with Tom’s family.
Becky said Jim is planning to meet me so I won’t need to rent a car and they have room for me for a couple of nights. I think my return flight is mid-afternoon on Wednesday which, with the time changes, will have me back in San Diego about 9 pm.
No worries about Ms. Midget. She will be staying at Grandma’s house and being spoiled by Mary Lou. Probably back to eating 3 cheerios with a teaspoon of milk for breakfast.

With the loss of my laptop and it’s carry bag (which contained my memory drives), I lost my master Abbott Update distribution list. I’m working on reconstructing it…and I know there have been several address changes/updates recently. I hope I won’t miss anyone.

By the way, I “created” a website for Tom’s memories which you can find at:
http://memorialwebsites.legacy.com/TomAllenAbbott/homepage.aspx
It has a guest book so you can write notes…or just read those left by others as well as my journal. It’s also possible for guests to add photos and I’d welcome your contributions. The project been very cathartic for me. I have more photos to add. These are just the first

Oh yes, I now have Skype …and need friends to practice with. (After I return, I guess). My address is ruth.abbot Don’t ask what happened to the second “t’ I don’t know. Kathy brought her laptop when she came for Mom’s 90th birthday. She has established links so Mom was able to talk with the great grandchildren in Argentina and in Indiana which was a special treat.

Mom’s birthday was “just right” I think. She got a flood of cards in the mail—several each day for two weeks or so—and was able to savor each one. She loved that. My sisters came again from Colorado and stayed at Mom’s house. The agenda provided for each of them to have one-on-one time with Mom; and then we all went to the beach one afternoon, out for lunch (3 days in a row) and had light suppers in the evenings at my house. Judy got us matching tee-shirts (even Sammy) which we wore in our photo op

That’s all for this edition—Make it a good week!! 

2011 April 24, Easter Sunday afternoon

Easter Sunday afternoon
April 24, 2011


I’ve had repeated comments about folks missing the “Abbott Update” blogs. I don’t know what happened to them. Life has gotten “BIZY” with the mundane, I guess. Doesn’t seem like there’s much to “write home” about…

It’s a (finally) quiet Sunday afternoon here and I thought I’d start a few lines. There were moisture drops on my awning when I got up this morning and intermittent sprinkles on the car’s windshield on the way to and from Church. Had the fireplace on for much of the afternoon. It adds a pleasant ambience as well as warmth.

Randy & Judy, Mom, Matt & Ashly with Tyler, Caleb and Nathaniel were here at noon. Judy brought dinner…and the boys had a great time looking for their plastic Easter eggs. Between everyone’s eggs there were NINE DOZEN (so 36 for each boy). They chose colors—Tyler got yellow & purple, Caleb got blue and pink, Bubba got orange & green. Those were the ONLY ones they were allowed to pick up. Worked fine…in the end every-one had 36. Then they opened and dumped the “haul” into plastic containers (discounting what got popped into their mouths).

What? Where’s Mary Lou? Oh, she’s in Arkansas visiting Auntie Helene (heading back tomorrow). She and a friend from San Diego took my Odyssey & drove. Challey is visiting her parents in Oklahoma (with her 2 children). If all goes well, they will be back in town on Thursday afternoon/evening.

As I looked back in my Abbott Update file, I see that almost exactly one year ago I was the one visiting in Mountain Home, AR and enjoying the dogwood and redbud. That was sandwiched between spending Easter with my kids in Arizona and visiting Tom’s family in Arkansas & Louisiana. I covered a lot of miles on that trip and have taken several others since.

In fact, I just finally got my 3rd suitcase unpacked. I was at a retreat in Pine Valley on March 5 & 6. Flew with Mom to Denver to visit my “Colorado sisters” on March 16-19; attended the Mary Kay Career Conference with Brenda in Long Beach on April 1 & 2; and left the following morning for a 3 day trip to Utah with Judy. The day after our return, Kathy & Duane, David & Kristin, Katie and Josh were in Escondido for a visit with Mom. David’s family lives in Indiana…and this was the first time Mom had met her great grandson. Starting Sunday after next (May 8th) Judy has a time-share condo in Dana Point for a week …and I intend to be in Arizona for Valerie’s graduation on May 26th. I’m hoping that can be a driving trip and last for a few days. So you can see that the dust doesn’t settle here.

In order for Mary Lou to enjoy a break from her routine, she left her cell phone with me and carried the one that was Mr. Tom’s. I wish I had a nickel for every call I’ve fielded!! It has been one BUSY week for me…often both phones ringing simultaneously. AND quite a few ministry messages to be handled. Some of the requests can wait or be handled as convenient, but Friday we had another young couple who would have spent the weekend sleeping on the floor without delivery of a bed. It is both rewarding and exhausting!!

For quite some while my Mary Kay business has kinda’ rocked along…doing a volume about commensurate with the energy I invested, which suited me. Since the first of the year, though, it has kicked up a notch. Kelli recruited in February and Jan in March along with HER new recruit, Cathy. In April I added Challey and then Cassie. We had Cassie’s Debut Party last night and Challey’s will be NEXT weekend. I think Cassie recruited at least one other consultant at her party last night…and so we GROW!!

My third involvement is as Church Treasurer. I enjoy my participation at Valley Baptist and am excited by the continued growth of the congregation. Last month we added picnic tables to seat 120 for the barbeque/potluck. Tom enjoyed monitoring the census growth from 12-15 per Sunday to consistently over 100 in 2 services. And he would have loved all the babies who have been born into this group; now 12-18 months old, starting to walk & talk. When the “6 and under” are excused to Sunday School, there is a steady stream of young walkers.

If you have access to FaceBook, you will find more and current day-to-day updates and photos on my Wall. We also started a FB page under “Helpfulou” where we post photos of some of our loads and chat about the ministry. We’ve developed quite a nice following of interested folks. In mid-May Mary Lou is speaking to the Escondido Rotary Club about the military ministry of HELPFULOU.

It’s 6:30 pm and I think I’m going to curl up in my comfy chair and read a book (or listen to something drone on TV until I doze off).

Hope you’re enjoying a Happy Easter and a beautiful spring.
Each boy got 2 colors...9 dozen plastic eggs.


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Bubba/Nathaniel
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Caleb
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Each boy got 2 colors...9 dozen plastic eggs

2016 May 2 God's Fingerprints...


God's Fingerprints on our Road Trip: For those of my friends who missed it before: "Miracles are not always visible to the naked eye, but those who live by faith can see them clearly. Living by faith, rather than sight, enables you to see My Glory." -Dear Jesus by Sarah Young, p. 24
Then Jesus said, “Did I not tell you that if you believe, you will see the glory of God?” -John 11:40
I've shared some of this with several, but want to try to record the amazement of our safety and protection on the trip from which Mary Lou, Midget and I have just returned. Our log book documents that we traveled a total of 6,692 miles in a trip listing 3 weeks and 3 days. It took us from Oceanside CA on the west coast to within an hour or so of Myrtle Beach, SC on the east coast. If you look at a map, we pretty much followed I-40 for the outbound part and I-20 on the return. (I'll see if Mary Lou can help me print a map.) We literally did not close that loop until we got on 15-South in Temecula, CA -- about 20 miles from Escondido.
The morning of our departure was very foggy but as soon as we hit the freeway, the ceiling lifted and visibility cleared. We saw pockets of fog in the valleys, but nothing to obscure driver safety.
Our first overnight was in Flagstaff, AZ (it was cold!) and the second in Tucumcari, NM. We left NM in the breaking dawn and saw sunrise from TX. As we were leaving Amarillo, we narrowly escaped being sideswiped by an 18-wheeler. That driver put on his signal and immediately began moving his rig into our lane (apparently without looking). Since his trailer was equipped with one of those "1-800 how is my driving?" numbers, I notified his dispatcher. Quite some while later, as we were approaching Oklahoma City, we had a similar experience...a truck just started moving into our lane. Then I noticed the brand (the same as in Amarillo). Then I glanced at the vehicle number...the same as in Amarillo! Then I hit re-dial and spoke to his dispatcher again.
While we were 3 days in Claremore, OK with friends, our accommodations were in a nearby Microtel (which we enjoyed). The week after we left, a tornado came through...right over that Microtel. We didn't hear of damage to that building, but the storm took part of the roof from our friends' house, as well as taking out their back fence and destroying the trampoline in their backyard (which was weighted with 400 pounds of sand!) A piece of their trampoline went through the roof of their neighbor's house. Being California girls, we have a healthy respect for earthquakes, but tornados are terrifying.
We were 4 amazing days in Branson, enjoying spring in the Ozarks and visiting Mountain Home AR, Carthage MO, and Eureka Springs AR. Followed by a night in Nashville TN (literally...a NIGHT. No shows!) and the next afternoon and evening in Gatlinburg, TN.
While starting the engine in Mountain Home, the van made a strange sound. One of those curious things. The next morning Mary Lou greeted me with the news that she had heard that sound again...and possibly the starter was going out. Great! With a 2-hour time difference, it was too early to call California, but as soon as I thought they MIGHT be open, I called Honda of Escondido for advice. We were headed to Springfield that morning (enroute to Carthage) and planned to pick up some maps from AAA (as my faith in GPS continues to diminish). Lo and behold! a half block from the Starbucks store was a Honda dealership, so we stopped. The service advisor there told me what California later reconfirmed...that there is no test for a failing starter; unless we were able to recreate the problem, they couldn't diagnose it. And that replacing a starter was expensive enough that we wouldn't want to do it as a "rule out" procedure. And furthermore... starters in Odyssey vans have problems so rarely that it might take a day or two to procure the part. That was one of the days on which my devotional reading was specifically about trusting...and I decided that's what we had to do. And we are still.
My next story is about leaving Gatlinburg TN at 5:30 a.m. It was pitch dark and a little foggy up there in the Smokey Mountains. The map said turn right...and that took us on an increasingly windy road that climbed (it seemed to the stars, since they were so clear). The "winding" became switchbacks in which it seemed the tailgate was still in one turn while the nose was into the next... with tall trees on both sides. When we lost the signal for our XM radio, it was a bit spooky. Then our GPS said to make a left turn. Sure enough... there was a sign (someone painted a board on a wooden stick) that said I-40 > so we turned. In completing the turn from the highway, we could not see the roadway in front of us; it fell away that steeply. So, we started down...and the pavement quickly became a gravel road but it was too narrow to turn around so we kept going. After what seemed like a long time (but was probably only a couple of long minutes) I saw a light down the hill... which was an encouragment that there WAS civilization ahead. In the yard of that house was a big storage trailer which could in no way have come down the road we just did, so it seemed that things were going to improve...and in fact within a very short while we came to a stop sign which gave access to the interstate. Whew!!
About noon we reached Moorsville NC and despite our GPS sending us on a "D.U." tour (destination unknown).. we eventually reached Mike and Jan's place. The plan was for Mary Lou to stay a couple of days and then Jan would bring her to Fayetteville to meet up with me. That allowed me a bit of extra cuddle-with-the-baby time. So after lunch and oh! so many instructions and programming my phone and my GPS, etc. I set off by myself for Fayetteville. Now I'm a west-coast girl and out here highways with numbers have numbers. Back there they have names and you're just supposed to understand that they also have numbers... which isn't very reassuring. I'd been on my own for probably 10 minutes when I pulled into a parking lot to call for confirmation...the Moorsville Police Department. (That made me laugh).
Neither Mary Lou nor Jan were answering their phone. I'm sure they weren't expecting to hear from me so soon. So there I was. The electronic maps weren't working and I had no idea whether that street name corresponded with the state highway I was supposed to be following. It's was a curious thing... I wasn't sure I could even retrace my path the way I'd come...had no idea where I was supposed to go... but blessedly I wasn't anxious about it. Eventually Jan got my message and called...and I was right on course. Then I had a detour around an accident but eventually got back on the right course again after which the GPS started working again. The roads were 1-lane each way with no shoulders so about every mile I had to find a driveway to pull out so the backed up traffic could pass. The cars all seemed to drive faster than the posted limits...but I had no wish for a speeding ticket. Despite all of the adventure, I DID succeed in finding Val and Matt's place without additional coaching. Yay! me.
After we left Fayetteville we drove through South Carolina and Georgia into Alabama. Our target for that driving day was Fairfield AL (near Birmingham) but we didn't get quite that far. We'd run through one really heavy rain shower (about 15 minutes during which the wipers couldn't seem to keep up) and as it got dark and we were tired, we decided to find a place and call it a day. The place was Oxford AL where we checked into their last non-smoking room and had scarcely gotten our overnight stuff inside when the skies let down again. We sat in our beds and watched the tornado reports on the TV... in the area we would have been driving had we gone forward. Thank you, God!
By morning the rain had cleared and the air was fresh. We again headed toward Birmingham. Mary Lou had been very sick during the night; possibly some food poisoning. She slept most of the way through Alabama and Mississippi. As we were tooling along, I noted that the sensor was telling me it was time for an oil change in the van. I called my service advisor in Escondido to ask whether I could make it to Dallas since the car had been at the dealership there before (years ago). He messaged back that I should just look for a Honda dealer and get the oil changed; I would not make it to Dallas. As I closed the phone, and before I could really consider how to resolve the problem I noticed a large blue "H" alongside the road-- Freeway Honda in Birmingham. I hit the off ramp and was soon in their service drive. I explained that we were traveling and that I needed an oil change and asked how long it would take. They weren't too busy, he replied--30 minutes. So, Mary Lou sat in the customer lounge, I walked Midget, and they got the car serviced... and 45 minutes later we were driving out their gate with a clean report.
And on and on it goes. Thursday morning we left Phoenix AZ with virga above and a haboob blowing up from the south. I was concerned that travel through the desert might be dicey. There were black clouds to our north, west and south... but as we traveled, we watched the storm lift over us. There was the usual wind on the Whitewater grade outside of Palm Springs but we didn't encounter rain until we saw the "Escondido" sign!!

Sunday, April 23, 2017

April 2017

April 23, 2017

I usually feel more "inspired" when I sit down to compose an Update, but at the moment it feels as though if we wait for an inspiration, you may not hear from me before Christmas.

Our weather has zipped from "rainy season" into full-blown SUMMER with very little warning.  One day there were moisture drops on the awnings and the next day the plants need to be watered with a hose!  I don't have many that have to be watered by a hose.. but I celebrated the Easter season with a few annuals tucked in here and there--crystal blue Lobelias, lavender Violas, purple Pansies--and I'm enjoying their little faces.

My rose garden just exploded into bloom! But it's moisture supplied by an automated watering system which Alberto regulates for me when we aren't having enough rainy days.























I don't know HOW warm it's been. Brenda sent a photo yesterday of the dash thermometer in her car showing 107 degrees. I honestly don't think it's been THAT warm here but it was 80 degrees in my family room with the windows open and a pleasant breeze. 

The downside of that is that many days I'm not here until late-dusk so the house is closed. Once I get the windows opened, it does cool down but it takes awhile. Last night it cooled 10 degrees and is a pleasant 72 at the moment.

I don't think I mentioned in my last Update that when Mary Lou took "Lil Truck" for service the last time, the mechanic told her the compression is dropping and ...don't pull the trailer with a load again. I honestly don't know what that means but I think it's mechanics language for "terminal". We had a couple of interesting weeks finishing up the pending projects without being able to pull the trailer... but God provided substitutes to pull the load.  That's a story of its own.


On Thursday of Easter week we went to a lot in Fallbrook where Mary Lou had located some Toyota trucks...and, oh shucks! ...one followed her home! Our new "Lil Truck" isn't quite so "little". It's a 2005 Tacoma with 59,000 original miles; one owner. It has a sport package which includes upgraded shocks for an almost car-like ride. The extend-cab means I can put my seat back far enough that my knees don't touch the dash :) and Midget has a space of her own. The color is called "Sand" but we think it looks gold. 


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Yes, it does have a tonneau cover. No, we can't move furniture very well with the cover on. We are tentatively planning a roadtrip beginning in late May during which we intend to deliver items to various destinations as we go so we decided to leave the cover on until our return. 

The trip:  If you live along a path that is roughly between San Diego and Indianapolis and would like to see us, we are beginning to plan the itinerary.  We know the first stop is Mesa, AZ for birthday celebrations over Memorial Day weekend. Our farthest point (as of this moment) is Indianapolis, IN with visits in Bartlesville and Claremore, OK and Carthage, MO. 

Beyond that, I anticipate spending much of August in Fayetteville NC helping my grand-daughter after the arrival of her daughter (Brantley's sister) as Matt is deploying.  

Meanwhile we have been keeping VERY busy. Those who follow us on FaceBook know that we have been at the Warrior Warehouse at Camp Horno almost every Friday for close to 3 months. This is a Rotary Club sponsored distribution center located in the heart of Camp Pendleton. Like Helpful L.O.U. they "channel" furniture and household items from civilian donors to military families. They are open for distribution from 9-12 on "Friday only" so the hours between 7-9 are busy with stocking whatever has been picked up by their big box truck during the week. 

Mary Lou still has her own ministry and we are able to make contacts through the folks who come to the Warrior Warehouse. We are also still doing a lot of pickups.  Last month we did a clean out on a 3 bedroom 2 bath house in Ocean Hills; and are about to wrap up a clean out in Solana Beach. They were approximately 4 truck/trailer loads each.  Those projects represent a lot of work...and we are grateful for the volunteers who help.  




Whatever did we do before we had the use of the trailer??


We are grateful for those who "hands on" help and also for those who help in other ways.. especially for those to pray for our safety as we spend hours on the highway.





Wednesday, December 10, 2014

2014 December


                                   


ABBOTT AMAZEMENT JOURNAL

December 10, 2014   6:15 a.m.

The passing train had everyone awake at 3:30 this morning.  One of the perks of staying at Oceanside Harbor is a front-row seat of the train tracks, which are well-used. The plus side is that during the day the passing trains gives Mom something to watch; along with the seagulls. Definitely a change of pace from home.

We had the opportunity to spend 5 nights at the coast and, although this is a busy season, we opted to cocoon in our 3 bedroom suite to do some Christmas baking and writing of Christmas cards. Mary Lou is delighting our palates with her Pinterest recipes.



Monday afternoon we took Mom to O’side Harbor to feed the seagulls—one of her favorite things to do. We had a partial bag of sale corn chips which made her a very popular person to about 40 gulls…to her great delight.

                          


Meanwhile Mary Lou and I took a walk on the beach. The tide was SO far out that we could walk almost to the end of the breakwater!! But that’s where we found the sand dollars. Some of them were shades of purple (still living) but we collected several of the white (deceased) ones.  This reminded us of when we were at this resort in 2009 for Mom’s 89th b-day celebration and found sand dollars on the beach.  

 
The sun is glinting on the crashing waves and we can see surfers (like tiny ants) out there enjoying the morning.  Coffee is hot and Mary Lou is producing enticing scents in the kitchen.  "Wish you were here" 


 

 I compared a photo from Monday with this similar shot from this morning (Thursday) and while the pix don't look so very different...the incoming storm front has changed our season from Indian Summer to Christmas! We are endlessly enjoying the gas fireplace and nesting in our condo. Our thinking now is that we will pack up and head inland this afternoon so that (hopefully) we can get unloaded before things get wet there.  Here we have an underground parking garage.